Sharing intimacy with another human being is, in my opinion, the most phenomenal experience we are blessed to have as humans.
Because we have evolved to be highly intelligent self-aware beings, sex for humans transcends the evolutionary need to merely procreate and create offspring. Humans are one of only a few animals on earth who partake in sex for pleasure.
Sex can enhance one's well-being in so many ways from improved intimacy, relationships, self-esteem and job performance. From a physical health point of view expect improved immunity, better heart health, lower blood pressure, pain relief, improved sleep and stress relief.
Yet whilst we might focus on our diet and exercise on a daily basis to improve health, very few people invest time to improve their sex lives.
I find this ironic since not only is an improved sex life an incredible bonus, it's actually a pleasurable way to improve one's health. Compare this to restricting yourself regarding food you love or forcing yourself down to the gym, dedicating time to improve your sexual experiences is a win-win process.
Sadly most people live their entire lives never really appreciating how mind-blowing sex can be. And whilst they may have fulfilling sex lives, when educated in the Art of Sensual Intimacy, they can tap into a whole new realm of pleasure they never imagined possible.
How did I get here sharing my passion with you? Why are my techniques so life-changing?
Firstly, I really love to pleasure.
This desire to pleasure has led me to always be focused on the exploration of my partners' body as well as making constant mental notes on the reactions to how and where I touch.
Secondly, I'm deeply fascinated by the human body.
I'm a member of MENSA and for my professional career have attained degrees and post grad studies in Computer Science, Finance, Mathematics and Audio Engineering.
Yet my true curiosity and passion has been in studying the human body. Understanding the physiology to be able to exploit all of the usually untapped pleasure zones. I also believe the brain is one of the body's most potent sexual organ so I have mastered the art of toying with it.
Thirdly, I would consider myself hypersexual.
Whilst people are often fascinated and even amused by this affliction, it can actually be debilitating. My mind is constantly thinking about sex. Constantly obsessed. Constantly horny. Constantly in need of orgasms (I've had up to 40 a day) and most importantly, constantly addicted to the desire to pleasure. My single life revolves around keeping what I jokingly call a 'Dick Diary' so that I always have men in my life daily to share intimacy with and keep myself satisfied till the next 'hit'.
What do I enjoy? I'm considered quite liberated and have always adopted the motto 'if it feels good, enjoy it'. I'm not a prude about my or my partner's body, so enjoy mutual touch, mutual oral, anal, double penetration (vaginal and anal), double vaginal and gang-bangs (with myself and two or more men). For my partners I am a very willing participant in rimming, prostate massage and for those so inclined pegging.
My culmination of knowledge and experience has let me to adopt techniques in pleasuring which drive all of my partners absolutely crazy. I'm always told that 'no one has ever touched me this way' which is generally also followed by the suggestion 'have I considered teaching my skill'. This feedback, as well as my desire to share and impart knowledge, is why I'm here today!
The truth is, being able to give such mind blowing pleasure, to drive my partners so wild and their resulting obsession for my technique, is very addictive. It's addictive to elicit deeper sounds of pleasure as I work my magic on my partners. And most of all witnessing that glorious moment when your partner orgasms deeper and harder than previously experienced. It's intoxicating.
The more addicted I became to giving pleasure, the more I pleasured. And the more I pleasured the more I continued to learn and explore and evolve my technique to where it is today.
When I reflect upon this, it saddens me to think that so many men will never truly understand the type of orgasm their bodies are capable of experiencing. Because there is nothing more beautiful than a man laying on the bed, post orgasm, looking up to the ceiling with almost a look of shock and bewilderment regarding the pleasure they have just experienced.
Men are actually far more easier to pleasure than women. Whenever I pleasure a guy it seems so easy to make him feel phenomenal. My technique is so easy to adopt on men because from my experience they are generally far more similarly wired from a mental and physical point of view.
But women on the other hand are an entirely different enigma. Which is why I also have classes which focus on how to truly pleasure a woman. I want women to have more positive experiences with their partners. I want their partners to not only have realistic expectations but to also know how to pleasure their woman in a way she has never experienced. I want to teach men how to not only broach the subject of more experimental sexual experiences with their partners, but also how to follow through with techniques that will have her coming back for more.
The knowledge of what I want to share is life changing. I think it is incredibly important that I not only talk about the how and what to master my art, but there are many introductory topics which are incredibly important and all form part of becoming a master of sensual intimacy.
So whilst you might seek knowledge of a nutritionist, or websites for advice on diet, and advice from a personal trainer or assistance at a gym to improve your health, why too would you not seek to improve your knowledge on all the elements which add to improving your sex life and therefore well-being?
I'm incredibly passionate about the Art of Sensual Intimacy and how it can transform people's relationships and lives. I look forward to the opportunity to impart my knowledge with those seeking to explore this wonderful journey of sexual exploration.
Evie